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Babywearing, not
just for Babies Babywearing has been around for hundreds of years but it is only now making its way into households across the United States. Carrier choices have gone from the standard backpacks and Baby Bjorn's, to the more stylish and versatile Ring Slings, Mei Tais, and Pouches. When we think of babywearing, we envision tiny little nurslings snuggled up in a fetal position close to their Mama or Daddy's heart; but Babywearing is not just for babies. Our amazing little babies quickly grow into curious and rambunctious toddlers. The next thing you know they are running away from you, touching and exploring their world around them with fervor and enthusiasm. This is an exciting time in both a parent and child's life, but sometimes a little respite is in order. Here are just a few of the many benefits to "wearing" your toddler: 1. Safety First: When you put your child in a carrier you know exactly where she is. Getting from the car, through the parking lot, and into a store suddenly becomes a safe and pleasant experience. Instead of struggling to hold her hand or prevent her from wriggling away, she is close to you and safe in your arms. Instead of worrying that an ignorant driver may not see your little one dart across the parking lot, you can calmly talk about the colors of the cars that pass you by. 2. Peace of Mind: How many times has "duty called", yet you did not know how you were going to manage you, your packages, and your toddler, in a germ filled public restroom stall. With your hands free to get down to business, and when you are wearing your toddler, they are not able to pick up the dirty toilet paper off the bathroom floor or play with the germy lock in the stall. Yes, this sounds extreme, but desperate times call for desperate measures. 3. Cure the "Clingies": Toddlerhood is a bewildering time in a child's life. Throughout their day they struggle between being a baby and a big kid. When it all gets to be too much they tend to latch on to us like static cling. One of the best ways to cure the "clingies" is to wear your toddler for an extended period of time during the day. This extra closeness, nurturing, and security will refuel your child, and truly encourage him to be more confident and independent. 4. Taming Tantrums: Another side effect of this bewildering time called "Toddlerhood" is the dreaded tantrum. They always seem to rear their ugly heads just as you enter the department or grocery store. Even Dr. Sears, in his article, "13 Ways to Encourage Toddler Good Behavior", recommends you "Use wisdom when shopping" and "Take your babysling along". When a child feels tired or overwhelmed they are prone to having meltdowns. Even in the chaotic environment of a shopping center, when you wear your toddler, they can rest, feel secure, and relaxed, which always tames the tantrum beast. These are only some of the many benefits of wearing an "older baby". For me, the best benefit of all, was when I was recently wearing my "don't-you-even-think-of-putting-me-down-let-alone-stop-bouncing-me" newborn, when my two year old came up to me. He said, "Up, Mama! Please!" If I was not a babywearing Mama, I would never have been able to hold (on my back) and rock my "high needs" newborn and still get cuddle time, as I held and rocked my toddler. Yes, I was wearing them both- but that subject is for another article! Colleen Newman, CPC, CHBE, owner of My Baby and More ~ Parent Coaching and Educational Services, has her degree in Early Childhood Education and Psychology. She has several years of teaching experience; working with infants through adults and has a passion for helping each child live happy, healthy, and secure. She also loves spending time with her best friend and husband, John, and raising her 2 year old son and infant daughter. (c) Copyright 2005 My Baby & More All Rights Reserved, used with permission |
